When Muslims get married, they have a responsibility to satisfy their sexual needs with each other and there should be no extra marital relationship. Adultery and fornication are serious sins, under Islamic law a serious offense. The reason for the severity of the punishment is obvious: the result of the adulterer’s irresponsible behavior often leads to the destruction of the family. The Prophet (pbuh) advised against anything that might lead to promiscuity by saying: ‘The fornication of the eyes is the look, that of the tongue is the word, and that of the foot is to turn to what Allah forbade. Abu (Abu Daud 2152) The wedding night Sunnah on the wedding night: It is advisable to pray two rak’ah – individual unit of salat (prayer) consisting of the reading of Al Fatiha standing, one inclination and two prostrations – together on their wedding night. When Abu Sa’id (ra) contracted marriage, Ibn Mas’ud, Abu Dharr and Hudhaifah (ra) told him: ‘When you and your wife are alone, pray two rakka together, then ask Allah to thank you. with the best of it and protect you from the evil that may be in your soul. (Ibn Abi Shaibah) The husband should, when consummating the marriage, put his hand on the front of your wife, mention the name of Allah, and say:: Oh Allah! I plead with me for the good that is in her, and the virtues which she has bestowed upon her; and I take refuge in thee from evil in her, and from her evil inclinations. Abu (Abu Daud 2/248, Ibn Majah 1/617) It is also advisable to say before starting sexual intercourse: ‘In the name of Allah, O Lord! Separate Satan from us and separate him from what He gives us. ‘(Bukhari 6/141), (Muslim 2/1028). That is, separate him from our son if he is the product of this relationship. Bismillah, Allahuma jannibnash shaitan, wa jannibish shaitana ma razaqtana. How should the relationship between the couple? Sexual intercourse is permitted in any position as long as vaginal penetration occurs. Regarding Allah said: Mulheres Your wives are to you as a plowed field. Then draw nigh unto your plowed field, as and when ye will. ‘(2: 223) The Prophet (pbuh) said: “From the front or from the scatter wherever it is through the vagina.” (Bukhari 6/141, Muslim 2/1028) Ibn Abbas (ra) reported that the Ansar (helpers), residents of Medina who responded to the Prophet’s call (pbuh) and assisted him, who had previously been polytheistic and lived with the Jews, had sex only with their wives head-on. , as did the Jews, unlike the Muslims in the city of Mekka, who enjoyed their wives front and back. When they emigrated to Medina, one of them had trouble marrying an Ansar Muslim woman because she refused to have relations in another position. When this dispute was transmitted to the Prophet (pbuh), Allah revealed to him the verse mentioned above. It is advisable to perform wudu shortly after sexual intercourse before bedtime. It is advisable not to sleep after sexual intercourse until performing the udu ‘(minor ablution: purification that must be performed before the salah or reading the Quran). Ayshah (ra) narrated: ‘Whenever the Prophet (pbuh) wished to eat or sleep, immediately after having had sex and before performing the ghusul, (major ablution: bath that thoroughly washed the body), he washed his private parts and performed the udu ‘. ‘(Bukhari 288) On one occasion Ibn Omar (ra) asked the Prophet (pbuh): Oh Messenger of Allah! Can we go to sleep in janaba state? (greater state of ritual impurity that requires full bath: ghusul). And the Prophet (pbuh) answered: ‘Yes, right after performing the udu’. (Bukhari 289) And in another version: ‘Yes, and do udu if you don’t want it.’ Wudu in this case is not required, but highly recommended. Ammar Ibn Iasir (ra) reported that the Prophet (pbuh) said: ‘There are three people whom angels never approach: the corpse of an unbeliever, the man who wears women’s perfume, and who has had sex until he has had sex. the udu ‘. (Abu Daud 4174) It is also recommended that anyone who has relationships and wants to have a follow-up do udu ‘. The Prophet (pbuh) said: ‘When one of you has a relationship with his wife and wishes to have another one afterwards, to perform the udu between them. (Muslim 308) In another narration: que… perform udu because it will invigorate you. ’It is permissible to bathe together: It is totally permissible for the couple to bathe together while both observe each other’s private parts. Narrated Ayshah (ra): ‘I bathed the Prophet with a single container of water, which was between them, so that our hands clashed inside him. He competed with me because I said to him: Leave something to me! Leave something for me! And we were both in janaba state. Muslim (Muslim 321) Mu’auiah Ibn Haida (ra) reported that he was asked the messenger of Allah (pbuh): ‘Who is allowed to strip us? ‘The Prophet (pbuh) answered:‘